I had a question are you gay or lesbian and do you think middle schools should be discussing homosexuality or are they too young? i just saw a video and a middle school have a gay straight alliance and it worries me that kids are talking about sex.

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Discussing sexuality is not always the same thing as discussing sex; one can discuss attraction without mentioning sex, one can discuss romantic love without discussing sex. However, middle school aged children need to discuss, verbally express, and receive counseling about their sexuality in a safe, tolerant, and accepting environment. Middle school aged children are thinking about sex and their sexuality, and they are anxious about whether they are normal or okay, or safe. Schools that have clubs, and/or counseling groups, for LGBTQIA students are more tolerant, supportive, and safe; and all students benefit from this. Children who are LGBTQIA deserve safety, recognition, and acceptance. 

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7 years ago

itscherryamber:

amurrrka:

peace-love-sex-music:

STOP SAYING A VAGINA IS LOOSE BECAUSE OF A LOT OF SEX.

VAGINAS ALWAYS SHRINK TO THEIR USUAL TIGHTNESS AFTER SEX.

PENISES DO NOT STRETCH THEM OUT OF SHAPE AT ALL

THE VAGINA IS A REALLY STRONG MUSCLE NOT A FLABBY PIECE OF SKIN

WHEN A DUDE BRAGS ABOUT HOW TIGHT A VAGINA WAS

HE’S LITERALLY BRAGGING ABOUT HOW HE COULDN’T GET HIS PARTNER AROUSED.

WOW 4 FOR YOU, BOY.

Spread the word! Maybe one or two boys might actually get it.

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7 years ago

(Same anon that asked you for advice on first-time sex awhile ago, sorry, I'm a shy follower.) Okay, my boyfriend (who've I've been with for two years and we are very in love and ready for this) have everything covered as far as an intimate setting and protection, but I'm wondering if you have any suggestions for first time positions? I always thought missionary was the standard position for such acts, but others have told me doggie style is actually less painful and awkward.

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I really wish I could help you with this but I’ve had some horrible experience with sex, so please don’t take my “advice” as law, okay? I would suggest missionary or you on top of him so that you can control the speed of the penetration. Both of these positions allow you to make eye contact with your partner which I think would make it more special. As far as the pain goes using a lubricant can help reduce the amount of pain you will experience. When intercourse begins stop for a moment, with him inside you, and let yourself adjust before he fully enters.

There will be some awkwardness as you and your partner try to find a comfortable position and good rhythm but arousal helps calm those insecure moments, so have lots of foreplay.

I don’t know if any of this helps but my inbox is always open. I wish you well <3

2 notes
7 years ago

Do you have any advice for first time sex?

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Be sure that all persons involved are truly ready to proceed to sex. Discuss protection and/or birth control. Talk about what everyone wants to happen. Do not proceed without verbal and responsive consent. If any one seems scared (trying to brush the other person’s hands away, trying to hide, scared or nervous expressions, etc) stop and talk.

Go slow. Get comfortable. Cuddle. Kiss for several minutes. Foreplay for several minutes. Touch each other. Use lubricant. Be sure all individuals are aroused before penetration.

If anyone says “no” or “stop” at any time: stop. no exceptions.

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/first-time-sex

http://www.health24.com/Sex/Great-sex/Top-tips-for-first-timers-20120721

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7 years ago

the concept of virginity

tic-tac-bergerac:

ecoprudefemme:

american-ruby:

  • is heteronormative
  • excludes males
  • disrespects rape survivors
  • objectifies females
  • reduces women to how men perceive them sexually
  • erases female sexuality
  • reinforces oppressive ideals of femininity and masculinity
  • in itself, doesn’t even make sense
  • reduce sex to male penetration
  • weaponize penetration as a depreciation against women
  • is outdated
  • is used to control the actions of women
  • is cissexist

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83,513 notes
7 years ago

boy:
shit baby you're so wet already

girl:
that's actually just vaginal discharge and my body is cleansing itself from bacteria and dead cells to prevent infection and to maintain optimal reproductive health i'm not even all that turned on right now and i would prefer to go get some food or something

429,484 notes
8 years ago