sufjand:
“ denise-huxxtable:
“ huntingvoldemortinamobilelibrary:
“ if you don’t think this carries an important message about our society then you are what is wrong with human society today
”
And this is why when you see a post empowering and...
sufjand:
“ denise-huxxtable:
“ huntingvoldemortinamobilelibrary:
“ if you don’t think this carries an important message about our society then you are what is wrong with human society today
”
And this is why when you see a post empowering and...
sufjand:
“ denise-huxxtable:
“ huntingvoldemortinamobilelibrary:
“ if you don’t think this carries an important message about our society then you are what is wrong with human society today
”
And this is why when you see a post empowering and...
sufjand:
“ denise-huxxtable:
“ huntingvoldemortinamobilelibrary:
“ if you don’t think this carries an important message about our society then you are what is wrong with human society today
”
And this is why when you see a post empowering and...
sufjand:
“ denise-huxxtable:
“ huntingvoldemortinamobilelibrary:
“ if you don’t think this carries an important message about our society then you are what is wrong with human society today
”
And this is why when you see a post empowering and...
sufjand:
“ denise-huxxtable:
“ huntingvoldemortinamobilelibrary:
“ if you don’t think this carries an important message about our society then you are what is wrong with human society today
”
And this is why when you see a post empowering and...
sufjand:
“ denise-huxxtable:
“ huntingvoldemortinamobilelibrary:
“ if you don’t think this carries an important message about our society then you are what is wrong with human society today
”
And this is why when you see a post empowering and...
sufjand:
“ denise-huxxtable:
“ huntingvoldemortinamobilelibrary:
“ if you don’t think this carries an important message about our society then you are what is wrong with human society today
”
And this is why when you see a post empowering and...

sufjand:

denise-huxxtable:

huntingvoldemortinamobilelibrary:

if you don’t think this carries an important message about our society then you are what is wrong with human society today

And this is why when you see a post empowering and uplifting black women, do not invade it with “don’t you mean all women.” No, because this is not the reality of “all women.”

Also: this isn’t brand new, these results were first found by a study done in 1947 with dolls by Kenneth B. and Mamie P. Clark. Little has changed.

(via justanotherphoenix)

snowy-owl-whitecotton:
“ One of the most important reasons to encourage an individual rather than praise them is to empower that individual. If I give you praise then I am telling you that you need my approval, that your worth is determined by me;...
snowy-owl-whitecotton:
“ One of the most important reasons to encourage an individual rather than praise them is to empower that individual. If I give you praise then I am telling you that you need my approval, that your worth is determined by me;...

snowy-owl-whitecotton:

One of the most important reasons to encourage an individual rather than praise them is to empower that individual. If I give you praise then I am telling you that you need my approval, that your worth is determined by me; when you should be able to define your own worth without seeking out approval from another. This seeking approval can come naturally because many of us want our loved ones to value what we think, feel, and do, and wanting the approval of a loved one is not a bad thing necessarily but one can be supportive while encouraging an individual. Praise is instant gratification; praise is here and gone in a second. “Oh, that’s nice,” the teacher says to the child who just showed them his or her artwork. The child sought attention and appreciation, received a typical response, and returns to their seat. Sure, saying “that’s nice” is a nice thing to say but encouraging statements leave a greater impact and truly shows the individual that you are paying attention. By saying “that’s nice” the teacher has given the child their approval. That tells the child what they did is important if the teacher says so, reinforcing authority, rather than encouraging positive self-esteem.

How to Survive as a Black Kid

tweenagekix:

  • How to Survive as a Black Kid
  • Don’t rely on school books for your education about history; they are heavily edited by European colonialism. Have you ever been taught about the ancient Wagadu Empire? Or the likes of Elijah McCoy?
  • Be aware there is a whole cityscape of well taught untruths and social constructs designed to block your view and destroy you mentally. You will have to gird your mind with carefully sought out knowledge to keep it fortified.
  • One day you may encounter a police officer whose sole aim is to belittle you. Be aware he is driven by great bitterness and life’s sorrows. This particular man was beaten by his father and called a failure since his youth. His wife is having an affair with someone who knows tenderness. Daily, he has to pretend he does not know. The system has allowed him to feel as though he has real power. You are the victim of his delusions. Try not to become too riled.
  • Don’t feel guilty if you don’t ‘act black’. These narrow paradigms someone has set up of how a typical black person must act and speak are one of the many, many ways to keep you locked up in a box. Yet…
  • Don’t feel guilty if you are accused of ‘acting black’ If you are expressing yourself in the essence of where you were raised, the confidence, lingo, mannerisms and intonations. Don’t feel you have to edit yourself for fear of other’s narrow minds and even narrower racial confines. As formerly stated, this term is a myth you learn to bypass. Simply a coin created to shame you whichever side it lands on.
  • Don’t feel guilty if you fall in love with someone of another race. As long as your admiration stems from a love of the soul’s beauty and not a hatred of blackness, or a fetish or worship of another colour, let love do what it does best –teach you to live outside of all of your ‘Self.’.
  • Teach yourself that hips, full lips, thighs and derriere and kinky hair are a point of beauty, not shame. Whether you have them or not.
  • Racist comments – let not your heart be perturbed. If someone has a heart so festered and intentions most deplorable, you should not be able to muster enough respect for them that their opinions mean anything to you.
  • If you’ve been brought up on ‘gangster’ rap, wean yourself off it. The record companies who pump sewage audibly are happy to have ‘music’ promoting envy, greed and murder, to infiltrate communities and be the backing track to their decay.
  • Words can be powerful. Words can be used against you. 16th Century words such as ‘blacklisted’ and ‘blackmail’ reinforce ‘black’ as a negative. Equip yourself with words that empower. P.S in China, white is the colour of death. These things are cultural. Cultural things are not concrete. However, they are fascinating. Learning about other cultures will expand your mind outside the small euro-centric vista you’ve been raised to have.
  • Understand that people will try to destroy you when they are afraid of your power
  • Read books. Many books. The right books.
  • Remind yourself daily that you as a human being have overwhelming intrinsic beauty and strength
  • Use your power wisely.
  • Use your power wisely
  • Use your power wisely

(via isfpoc)

reblog if you were that child who was always:

  • gasping at the sound of the phone ringing
  • sitting in front of a window, watching
  • searching through a crowd of people
  • checking the mail for a specific letter
  • looking hopefully at the front door opening

wishing it would be that someone who never came.

lakotapeopleslawproject:
“ LEGAL SUIT AGAINST OTTAWA’S CHILD WELFARE SERVICES
“Our children keep being taken away from First Nation families in even greater numbers today than during the residential school era,” said Shawn Atleo of the Assembly of...

lakotapeopleslawproject:

LEGAL SUIT AGAINST OTTAWA’S CHILD WELFARE SERVICES

“Our children keep being taken away from First Nation families in even greater numbers today than during the residential school era,” said Shawn Atleo of the Assembly of First Nations.

What’s happening? Experts estimate there are at least 27,000 aboriginal children who have been removed from their immediate families.

Legal action started in 2007, arguing child-welfare services on reserves received 22 per cent less funding than off-reserve services, even though the need was far greater. - The Canadian Press 

VERY SIMILAR to what is currently going on in South Dakota and other states.

HELP LAKOTA PEOPLES PROJECT BY SIGNING THE PETITION TO INVESTIGATE SOUTH DAKOTA. HERE!

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(via helps-her-people)

My daughter, Little Bear, is in 2nd grade and in the Special Education program. She is in this program because she gets overwhelmed in large groups, to the point that she runs away. I am happy that she is in this program; however, my concern is that there is limited learning going on and I am going to be doing some teaching from home.

I would love it if  y'all could comment with your recommendations on what to teach. Thank you in advanced :D

examples:

  • musical instruments: how to spell the names of instruments, how to play one or two of them, listening to some composers, etc.
  • colors: spelling the name of colors, painting and mixing colors, learning about the different shades, etc.

P.S. I’m not afraid of her “getting behind” for her grade level; I’d rather she found ways to learn and how to learn, rather than just regurgitate information back. Any ideas?

children are the best people in the world.

This past weekend Little Bear (age six) and I went to my uncle’s powwow and she made a new friend. This friend is also six and they played together all day.

Her friend, Eliza, noticed that Little Bear would periodically hold her head in her hands, eyes wide, mouth open, and slightly shaking; I know this to be her stemming. Little Bear is Autistic and when she becomes overwhelmed she stems uncontrollably.

Eliza asked why does she do that. I told her, when Little Bear feels overwhelmed she relaxes herself by doing that. Eliza asked me what overwhelmed means. I tried to explain to her using a few situation stories. She smiled at those stories and said “I feel overwhelmed sometimes too!” And that was the end of it; they went back to playing together.

Children are the most wonderful, accepting and understanding people.