Stop getting butthurt about what other people wear. Jesus christ. If anyone wants to wear a cross, headdress, nun costume, hijab, pentagram, gold chain…fuck it, who the fuck do you think you are to tell them they aren’t...
I am not taking any hurtful action against you. I am not rallying racism either. I'm not a racist person in the slightest. Human beings are more than the sum of their demographic. I don't think anyone should be held accountable for their entire demographic, whether it be for good or bad. But bullying people for admiring an aspect of your culture does absolutely no good. If you're offended fucking teach them what it means to your culture and maybe what it means to you personally and let them form their own opinion. You're saying you have more of a right than other people do. And when you give yourself rights, you put yourself into a category no one else can be in. We all know segregation leads to narrowmindedness and racism. That is the exact opposite of what you supposedly want, so why not teach instead? Hostility doesn't foster knowledge.
Admiring a culture, cultural appreciation, is not cultural appropriation. Admiring a culture does not consist of stealing and misusing cultural items.
Having a closed culture, or a culture where one must earn the right to have a sacred item, is not the same thing as segregation.
I am not holding you accountable for what white people have done (though you benefit from what white people have done and do); I am holding you accountable for your own actions. You spoke over Native people, dismissed our feelings and beliefs, disrespected the people from the cultures who practice the use of the warbonnet, and declared that you had the authority to give everyone permission to misuse it. Those are the actions of a racist person.
I have been teaching. I have been attempting to teach you. I have done so logically and calmly, even though I have every right to be angry because you are promoting racism against Native Americans.
You are playing the victim and in denial over your own racist actions. Devote that energy to research cultural appropriation, white privilege, and racism.