when i became pregnant with Little Bear I went to the thrift store and bought every book I could find on parenting, child development, and child education. I read over 100 books. Then I took parenting classes. Then I took over 20 classes on parenting, child development, and child education. I did my own research and if and when I still didn’t understand I paid an instructor to help me understand. I didn’t go online and demand parents to educate me. When you actually care about something you do whatever you can to learn about it. You don’t put the responsibility onto someone else and then blame them if they refuse to teach you.