Before anyone reads this, I’m going to say : fuck it, this is me, not you. Thanks.
I hate racism. I hate that it exists. I hate that it is something that kills, maims, abuses, hurts. I hate that it stirs up feelings of pain and anger.
I hate that a lot of people do not see racism.
But I also...
Generalizing white people is survival.
You are mistaking prejudice for racism. Racism = prejudice + power. White people do not experience racism; they can however, experience prejudice and/or discrimination.
Being kind/polite/subservient to one’s oppressor is not going make racism magically disappear.