I'll Find My Own Bravado: indigenous-rising: sighcology: Not being attracted to people of a...

talesofarambler:

indigenous-rising:

wontstop-tilwesurrender:

indigenous-rising:

wontstop-tilwesurrender:

indigenous-rising:

sighcology:

Not being attracted to people of a certain ethnicity/race isn’t racist. It’s entirely possible to be friends with that person, you don’t have to write them off completely just because there’s no sexual attraction.

What IS racist is advertising your…

This isn’t my conversation at all but you can’t help who you’re attracted to.
If not being attracted to one race is racist, why isn’t not being attracted to one gender sexist?
Would a gay man be sexist because he doesn’t date women or would a lesbian woman be sexist because she doesn’t date men? Would a straight man sexist because he doesn’t date men or would a straight woman be sexist because she doesn’t date women?
You see what I mean? You can’t help who you find attractive and who you don’t. It’s a personal preference and everyone has one. It’s not like they can pick and chose who they find attractive or who they fall in love with and who they don’t.

only being attracted to a specific race is racist.

not finding anyone from X race attractive is racist.

How so? I don’t find certain races attractive besides maybe one or two guys I’ve seen from it. I’m not racist. I wouldn’t treat them any differently than a up an is supposed to be treated. I just wouldn’t date them because I’m not attracted to them. How am I supposed to control that?
That’s like saying a gay man is sexist if he wouldn’t date any women but he’s not sexist if he would date x amount of women.
It doesn’t make sense does it? Because he can’t control the fact that he doesn’t find women attractive in the dating sense, so how would it be far to label him as something he’s not because of it?

basing attractiveness off of skin color is racist.

Gender preference is about how the chemicals in your brain relay sexual desire to your brain. Attraction to only X race or excluding Y race, is racist b/c it is about either 1. Conforming to beauty standards that have been taught as superior or 2. Fetishization or a race… YOU DON’T CHOOSE TO BE Glbtq, but you do pick who you decided to date, Gay= not a choice. Attraction to only X race or excluding Y race= a choice

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Sun, Sep 29th 2013 at 0 AM