I'll Find My Own Bravado: indigenous-rising: sighcology: Not being attracted to people of a...
Not being attracted to people of a certain ethnicity/race isn’t racist. It’s entirely possible to be friends with that person, you don’t have to write them off completely just because there’s no sexual attraction.
What IS racist is advertising your…
ruling out all people with X skin color is racist; and having the prejudice of not being romantically involved with anyone with black hair is prejudice. Not being attracted to every single person in X race is not about beauty, it is about racism. OP literally said, in other words, that he find no people with X skin color attractive. I don’t understand how you could possibly be confused.
I guess it depends on motive. If you genuinely don’t find a certain skin type attractive, that’s fine. But if you don’t want to become involved with anyone with a certain skin type because you think that they’re worth less than you, then it’s racism.
Same as there’s a difference between not finding red hair attractive, and not wanting to get involved with anyone with red hair because you think they all have anger issues.
Intent doesn’t matter when the outcome is the same. You have been programed to believe X color is unattractive. It is a prejudice no matter how you came about it or how nicely you wrap it up.