That 13buddha (appropriated name btw) will always find something to argue about. He's clearly troubled and unhappy and nothing u say or do will allow him to consider your point of view. Why waste time and energy...
Asked by Anonymous
My strategy is to use logic to break down what both of us are truly saying. Once they realize that their argument is a defense mechanism (in this case) perhaps then he can do the personal growth or reflection on his own. The goal is not to hurt anyone or make them feel guilty; it is to make them see how they can hurt others. It is a learning process; one I go through often. We all need to keep expanding as more caring, loving, and accepting people.
Sat, Sep 28th 2013 at 0 AM