You aren’t telling me this in an attempt to be nice though. Your intent was to shame me for being fat and try to hurt my feelings. You didn’t message me in a sincere way worrying about my health. Your intent was to hurt me.
And you failed.
I’ve never seen an ugly woman before in my life. And when I look in the mirror I do not see an ugly woman. I do see my fat but that doesn’t hinder my beauty, it attributes to it.
I think you need to reflect upon your actions. Ask yourself: Why do I want to hurt people? Why am I offended by fat people?