you wanna save $$? you could back away from the fridge, dear. you've had plenty for awhile. added bonus is that you'll get to actually live long enough to enjoy your grandkids if you lose that weight now.

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(TW: Eating Disorder)

First of all, body shaming is not okay and it doesn’t benefit you or me; so why do it? Secondly, some people gain weight for different reasons. I have always had an eating disorder; but I have never over-eaten. Today I ate a half slice of bread. That’s it. Most days I don’t eat at all. So my body retains every ounce I eat which causes me to be fat. (If you don’t believe that that is possible then google it) My parents, and family and friends, beg me and try to force me to eat. I struggle with not eating everyday. So telling me to stay away from the fridge is not valid; plus it’s really mean. What’s wrong with being fat? Not every person who is fat is unhealthy. Not every thin person is healthy.

I believe that when people say things to insult another person it is actually a reflection of a shame or fear the insulter has them self. You must fear being fat if you will go as far as to send me rude messages. And since you have such anxiety about being fat all I can say is that I hope you have a loving and supportive family who can help you. Peace.