well i want to know im sure you will find love someday just be honest what are you looking for in a boyfriend

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1. They have to love my daughter as if she were their own.

2. They have to either have their own children, want children (obviously because I have one), and/or be interested in having more children.

3. They must be or want to be a farmer and plan to live in a rural town or live off-grid.

4. They must accept my culture and not attempt to change it.

5. They should have their own hobbies, activities, friends, and interests. It is always nice to have some similar interests but I like a great deal of space and independence, and although I will want to be a very loving and supportive partner, I would want my partner to have their own things they enjoy doing too.

6. They would have to be a womanist, and not homophobic, transphobic, or racist.

7. They must not make insensitive jokes; if they make jokes or insensitive comments like “that’s retarded / that’s gay / is she a dyke? / etc” If they make jokes that insult people’s bodies, their physical or mental abilities/disabilities, use mental disorders as insulting adjectives, etc, then they are not the one for me.

8. They have to be strong enough to keep up with me and call me out when I need it too.

I’m sure there is more to add but no one cares so it’s whatever.

Mon, Jun 17th 2013 at 23 PM