Roma isn't cruel? Roma is the Romani word of "Romani girl" :) But I will ask some of the others in our community and see how they really feel about it :) I don't want to argue of course, just I was brought up calling myself a gypsy or others that but I can see it angers you and for that I am sorry! I didn't mean to annoy you, I was just saying what it was from my side, sorry :)