Shit's about to get all complicated up in here. She is absolutely allowed to define what racism is against her to other PoC, without being told it ISN'T racism by them. There's a spectrum, racism isn't simply one set definition or example. There are many, many ways in which a person can be racist and many ways that racism can be conveyed and interpreted. So most experiences with racism are going to be different depending on each PoC group and the people within it. (Part 1)