I look “whiter” when I have blonde hair; I think I look like a fair-skinned Native American either way, but the only time I get any romantic attention is when I’m blonde.

Why is that?

I’ve been wanting to bleach my hair again to match my daughter’s hair color but every time I bleach it I get negative feedback saying I’m trying to look white. When I dye it black I hear negative feedback of you’re trying to look Native.

^Mixed Race Problems