fuckcisplaining
You can't teach survivors that their body is their own while defining what recovery is for them.

That means:

-you don’t decide that recovery includes having sex again

-you don’t decide recovery means therapy

-you don’t decide whether recovery means letting people touch them again

-you don’t decide recovery means being able to cope with triggers instead of avoiding them

-you don’t decide that recovery includes stopping or starting ANY behaviours unless THEY say so

Or you are NOT giving them autonomy.